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Would You Rather Be Happy?..Or Right?

Tuesday, October 21st, 2008


I love men.

I really do.

But one of the things that is toughest for me is when the man in my
life thinks he is right when I am pretty darn sure that he is not.

It has been a challenge to pick my battles carefully. If it is
critical that he know that he is not as right as he thinks he is, I am
building the courage and the vocabulary to gently express myself. This
morning I mentioned that I met a new friend, a medical doctor, and that
I wanted to nurture the relationship.

Don?t Assume What He Is Thinking

Tuesday, October 21st, 2008


As the meeting went on?past the scheduled ending time, I felt my stomach clutch into a knot. Knowing my man was waiting for me and yet wanting to stay until the end of he meeting, I found myself feeling tense and uncomfortable.

I knew he would be upset and I find myself bending over backwards to
keep that from happening. I felt pressure in my throat. Wait a minute
here. Haven’t I felt like this before? Only a thousand times. Wait
another minute, how old am I? Thirteen?


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